Chat only on a match
No unsolicited messages. A conversation opens only when you have both liked each other, and either of you can start it.
Dating, matched on intent
Date people who want the same thing you do.
Most apps match you on photos and hope for the best. RoomRiff asks what you're actually looking for — casual, serious, or marriage — and only shows you people who want the same thing.
House ruleNobody can message you until you have both said yes.
Founding member — you’ll be among the first here
ReservedFree · 18+ · Your photos are never public
Four reasons
Why women choose RoomRiff
The same things make it better for everyone — but these are the ones women ask about first.
Block that actually blocks
Blocking hides you both ways, ends any match between you, and stops one forming. Reporting blocks too — you shouldn’t have to do it twice.
Matched on intent
Say whether you’re after something casual, something serious, or marriage. Nobody looking for the opposite ever reaches your deck.
Speak the same language
Add the languages you speak — any languages — and your background only if it matters to you. Shared languages are surfaced on every card and sort your deck. Leave it blank and nothing is filtered.
After you join
What happens next
Build your profile
Five questions — about a minute. Photos come next, and you choose how many.
See who fits
Only people whose intent and preferences line up with yours, both ways. Nobody else reaches your deck.
Like someone back
A private chat opens only when you have both said yes. Until then, silence.
Change your mind
Unmatch, block or delete everything — yourself, immediately, without asking us.
House rules
Safety & privacy
The short version. The full privacy policy and community guidelines have the detail.
- Who can contact you
- Only someone you have liked back. There is no way to message a person who has not matched with you, and no inbox for strangers.
- When messaging opens
- The moment you both like each other — not before. Either of you can send the first message.
- Blocking
- Hides you from each other in both directions, ends any match between you, and stops one forming later.
- Reporting
- Blocks that person at the same time, so you never have to do it twice. Reports go to a real person.
- Your photos
- Visible only to signed-in members. They are never public, never indexed by search engines, and never posted anywhere else.
- Deleting your account
- One tap from your profile, immediate, and it takes your photos, messages and matches with it. You can download a copy first.
- What we collect
- What you put in your profile, and nothing bought from anyone. There is no advertising on RoomRiff and we do not build an advertising profile of you.
- Inappropriate behaviour
- Reported accounts are reviewed and can be suspended. The guidelines say plainly what is not allowed here.
A table for two
Quiet until you both say yes.
Say what you're looking for, and RoomRiff only shows you people who want the same thing. Free, and you can delete everything yourself, any time.